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Old 07-11-2007, 02:07 PM
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Originally Posted by seienchin View Post
Whenever you hurt somebody without meaning too, it is important to take the time to reflect on what happened, and identify what you would do differently next time. You might find that you have something you could express to the parents of the child that would make them feel like you have learned and grown. In my day-job, I manage a hospital. Even when we hurt somebody very,very badly, sharing information about what we have learned and what we would do differently next time helps with the healing. Karate is no different.
Being humble is one thing, hurting someone by accident is different.

Do not think about it and move on. Dwelling on such minnor issues will hurt you as a fighter, you will learn to focus on the person for the wrong reason and end up yourself the one hurt.

IF anything is to be said to the parents, it is the place of the sensei to do it
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